• I cannot tell you how many job opportunities I’ve lost because I didn’t speak a certain language. Not because I was lacking a degree. Over 100 this year. Gut punch, right? Granted, it gave me the kick in the butt I needed to make more progress with my language learning. It still hurts! But simple…

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  • So That Just Happened

    This isn’t political, breathe. This is in regards to an irksome observation I have had a time or two over the past year that has resulted in me needing to make significant changes to my Freelance business. I would be offended, but that would be an investment in the corporate world that I promised myself…

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  • I Learn What I Want

    And how I want. And in the way that is best for me. And at my own pace. And from the institutions that I want. Why am I learning, continually, at my age? Because I love to learn! I talked about this a bit in a few posts, but doing what makes you happy is…

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  • This thought, this feeling, is completely valid. You aren’t a horrible person, you aren’t a failure, there is nothing wrong with you.

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  • Yes, it is possible! And so d@$% empowering! But it can mean different things to different moms. Obviously I can’t, and won’t, speak for anyone but myself. I will not sugar coat anything, or pitch some toxic positivity BS. So read on if you want to know what being successful means to me. Stable Career…

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  • I feel like single moms often dismiss or undervalue our “wins”. I am still in the habit of doing this, but I am more mindful of it now. Why is it important though? Because the name of the game is ‘consistency’ and the reward is our very important friend ‘dopamine’. Celebrate! No, really, you need…

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  • Well, if you’re asking this question already I would say you shouldn’t. But lets get into it a bit more. I recently went through an incredibly challenging decision. To leave my family completely. Cousins, Aunts, Uncles, Nieces, Nephews, everyone. Why? They support Trump. That makes them Nazis and Fascists. They would not even have a…

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  • If you’re reading this from the USA…you need to move. Out of the country. Every single strategy, side-hustle, “coach” advice, etc. they have all been (nearly) destroyed by the current administration. Or are on their way to being destroyed. If you want a quick breakdown of what has been happening, and what is in the…

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  • That was… a lot. Even for me, and I live here (for the moment). This was an incredible sociological exercise that I am very thankful for and I hope you gained some knowledge as well. As you go through the numbers and citations, I know some things are a bit off. As someone who specializes…

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  • Continuing with the series… When talking with people (mostly those outside of the USA or Boomers) people think that USA citizens are just irresponsible with their money if they are in debt. Possible, but there is also the other side of that. If you’ve been following along with this series, you understand why. According to…

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