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  • The Right to Relax

    Its a privelage. It honestly is. For so many people being able to relax or enjoy life is dependent upon being financially secure. What I mean by that is they have enough income to cover basic needs, savings, retirement, and then enough to do activities to enjoy life. If that is you, yay! If it…

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  • So… been a while… hi!

    Everyone I hadn’t realized how long it had been since I had written a blog post and WOW I have a lot to catch you up on. But we will get to that in a bit, probably over a few posts. First things first, how are you? If you are in the USA, things are…

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  • So much. It means so much. I am so tired of people not understanding the absolute soul deep toll it takes to raise a child. Full credit to the multiple African cultures that created this and teach this. Dealing vs Ideal Yes, you can do it on your own, but no that isn’t how it…

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  • The Co-Parenting Dilemma: When is it Better to Go Solo?

    Is it time to go solo? Co-parenting can be an absolutely amazing way to move on after a divorce and give your kid(s) a better life. However, there are many instances (like mine) where it can actually make your child’s life worse. If there is no trust, cooperation, and compromise then co-parenting is doomed to…

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